Category: The Farm

Surprises at the Farm

The blog Introducing the Farm talks about how and why we bought a farm. We have a Demo Day blog, as well, to talk about the beginnings of our renovations with lots more of that to come. But, one of our most exciting and important days needs to be told! The surprises we have had have been, and continue to be, an ongoing adventure for our family with learning and exploring our new farm lifestyle.  

Trying to keep this surprise from the boys was really hard! We had three birthdays coming up for the summer time and we thought it would be fun to wait until the day before Christian’s birthday to reveal the big secret. We have three summer boys so it only seemed right to make this their wonderful summer surprise after working so hard on the farm.

We blindfolded all four boys with red bandanas and lead them from the long driveway all the way around the garage to the back of the house. The anticipation was killing them.

They had no idea what to expect. At one point while blindfolded Jayden stuck his hand out, right into the nostril of one of the surprises. It startled him but he still didn’t know what it was.

Rhett and I counted to three and the boys took off their blindfolds to unveil you probably guessed it – HORSES!! As we got up close, the three horses were just as curious as the boys were as they slowly made their way towards us.

I can’t put into the words the excitement that the boys displayed. At first, their eyes were wide and their mouths dropped open, a bit like a cartoon really. And then, as they were able to comprehend that they had horses, they each started saying incomprehensible things like “waa fo reaaalll” and other exclamations! They were so happy and excited that they immediately started to pet these beautiful creatures. The previous owner was so kind and introduced the boys to the animals he had owned since they were young. He let them in the pen and one by one the boys got to get on the horses and take them for a short ride.  The horses immediately warmed up to the boys, and it probably helped to have their favorite treat, a bucket of oats.

Introducing Sky, Aspen and Duke!!

Sky and Aspen are our two new American Quarter Horses, for our three older boys to learn to ride on, and Duke is our Welsh Pony for our youngest, Kaleb, the perfect size for a little beginner. It was quite a day and the boys had to keep pinching themselves because it was just too good to be true.

This was a really big surprise for me too, my husband said, “we can’t have a farm without horses!” Rhett and I had never talked about horses and I had no idea that he has always wanted them.  Apparently, he had been looking for some time. And then, one day he stumbled on an ad in the classifieds. Immediately he called asking about the beautiful horse advertised.  It just so happened that the gentleman selling the horse had three and preferred keeping them all together.  He made Rhett an offer that he couldn’t refuse: this included a horse trailer, saddles, blankets, brushes and anything else we needed. This was so wonderful and yet another blessing for both families!

Along with the three horses that have been introduced here, Rhett had also purchased a horse we named Shannon. He was beautiful and large in stature but he was wild and had not been broken.  His beauty and wild spirit is what attracted my husband, but after months of training in the end, the trainer recommended that we give him up because even the best of trainers couldn’t predict what this wild horse would do. We agreed that safety is the most important aspect of teaching our boys, and ourselves, about our new horsey family members.

We are so excited about this new adventure.  Our horses are so beautiful, so sweet, and friendly.  There are days that I could just sit and watch them run around the pasture, I am in awe every time I see them.  

There are more surprises to come – wait until you see what comes next!!

Introducing The Farm

Life is truly incredible, and as I have found out, my plan didn’t pan out the way I expected it to, it’s so much better!!  My family and I are WOWED and so BLESSED to have an opportunity to own this little farm. It is our weekly reward and exciting getaway every weekend and then some! (for my husband it’s almost daily)

When I met my now husband, Rhett, in 1990, he was a young handsome stockbroker with many dreams. I, too, had dreams, but they started with serving a full-time mission in the Philippines. He was crushed when I left him for 18 months. But I knew that if he was the “one” then he would be waiting when I returned. (I’ll share our amazing, heart-wrenching love story later)

 

We were married in August of 1996 and ready to make our dreams come true. As for this chapter, Rhett’s dream became OUR dream.

When he decided to start our business it was at first a place where he could work with both his mind and his hands and he was really good at it. I didn’t know anything about this world of designing or building, but I learned and we learned to manage it together and have become an unstoppable force. With our business goals met and continuing to grow, other dreams had become prominent in our world. The dream of a wonderfully large family (also achieved!) and a home in the country. This is where our story for the blog really begins.

It’s hard to see the open gate at the bottom of the road, but this is the entrance to our farm. The pasture is on the left with a barn in the back. The driveway is lined with tall trees and curves around to the right with a small pond on the left and leads to the farmhouse hidden in the trees.  Plowing this driveway in the wintertime is going to be a big chore! Good thing we have lots of boys and a tractor!

Our weekends have always been full since our first son, Rhett Taylor, was born, and this has yet to change. While the boys have been growing up, I would usually love to stay at home on our days away from work, to watch my boys be boys, involved in all kinds of sports and recreation. Rhett would take weekends to go out in the country with our dogs, Maggie, Fergie, and Gunner, to explore, hike, and prepare for their dog trials. This dream of being in the country was satisfied by a weekend away, here and there, as long as he could be away from the city.

I hadn’t thought of our, now, new country home as being MY dream, but what surprised both Rhett and I, is how much this has turned out to be the most amazing decision for me personally. It has literally saved my life and keeps me excited and striving for those weekend feelings! For me, life is like a parallel universe when I get out to the farm. Let me explain…

Our property is covered with hundreds of trees and acres of beautiful green grass. The nearest reservoir is only a quarter of a mile from our property. We look forward to many fun activities boating, fishing, and wakeboarding!

In the city, I’ve been relying on help and the digital age conveniences for years now. When I had four young boys, they had a full-time nanny (who I will talk about later), a tutor to help with homework assignments, and a weekly housekeeper to keep up with cleaning. (I admit I’m a freak when it comes to a clean house.) We were working out of state often and I had to hire a caterer to take care of our food needs, as Rhett and I were working late and were far too busy to cook every day. Instacart, Uber Eats, and Door Dash have been my saviors for food and snacks for four growing boys. And to mention my favorite, a Trunk Club/Stylist would come to my rescue when I was in need of something nice to wear.  It may sound pathetic to some but as a business owner, I delegate to make my work more efficient and as a mommy, with four boys, it’s no different. I need all the help I can get!!

Now, however, all of that is gone on the weekends and I am a true farm gal at heart. My favorite store is Tractor Supply and I even buy clothes and galoshes there to wear at the farm! While we are at the farm, I’m a true Betty Crocker with baking cakes and cookies. I make a hot breakfast, lunch, and dinner while making sure we leave our weekend home absolutely spotless when we head back to the city. No Instacart for me in the country! I love the local market and all the wonderful produce and variety available. We eat seasonal foods and have lots of fruit trees and I hope to start a garden in the spring. It’s such a transformation and I will continue to share my triumphs, and, undoubtedly, failures along the way.

The ponds are what initially attracted my husband to this property. They are so majestic, full of fish and add so much tranquility to our farm. I spy a cute little farmhouse nestled in the trees! 

When we first took our boys to see the farm, they were excited but didn’t quite understand the depth of how life would change for them. But who am I kidding, neither did I!! The boys immediately took to farm life and loved being involved. It must be in their genes to enjoy building things because they beg to get out there every weekend to keep working on the farmhouse, I think they like seeing the progress it’s making too.

Our before and after pictures already show a totally different home. As a family, we have stared for hours at walls, torn down those walls, fought over paint colors, and laughed about mistakes. It is no doubt that all four, oldest to youngest Collins boys, will be a master of remodeling within the next year along with learning some serious farm skills!!

Demo Day April 7, 2018

Demo Day!

We signed the pile of mortgage docs and now we own a farm!! Time to move in, right? Ummm, not exactly.

After buying the property, with a small farmhouse on it, the day finally came where we could take the boys to see our new place! I had been to the farmhouse and knew there was work to be done, however, this time, when we walked in, it was now MY farmhouse with a TON OF WORK TO BE DONE! As I walked around, I started making a mental checklist… I then went and grabbed some paper and made a real checklist! From day one, I couldn’t get my mind off of all the fun projects in store for us.

Rhett wanted to move right in, and I said, “NO WAY!” I wanted this to feel like home when we came here for relaxing weekends. This was our home now and it needed to feel as nice as our home in the city.  So we agreed to work on it and make it a beautiful getaway before we moved in.

The first time we went, before buying the property, I took a ton of pictures. I took pictures of doors, floors, and even got on all fours! (My inner Dr. Suess just came out there…) I had wanted to remember what I was working with and everything that needed to be done. With pictures in hand and a checklist I had written, I got out the architectural plans and started red-lining right away. Here’s the start to my to-do list.

  • demo all bedroom closets and bookcases
  • tear out all doors, casing, and moldings
  • tear out carpet and padding
  • get a bid on moving the electrical panel
  • move doorway to the master bathroom
  • tear out closets in the mudroom
  • cover old doorway to the bathroom
  • remove large pantry in kitchen
  • make the entrance to kitchen larger
  • take out the wood burning stove
  • replace toilets
  • pick out paint colors
  • pick out flooring
  • order interior and exterior lighting
  • design new mudroom
  • prune tree overtaking front deck
  • order a new hot tub cover.

 

Here is the BEFORE picture of one of the bedrooms. As you can see this room was very cramped for the previous owners. My plan is to take out the bookcases so that I can make the room bigger.

 

Here is the BEFORE picture of what will be the boy’s bunk room. The room is very cramped and so I have decided to eliminate the built-in closet.

 

The bedrooms were very small and needed to be more space efficient. I couldn’t add on to the rooms so I decided to take out the built-in closets and bookcases so that I could create more space. I even considered building a loft due to the high ceilings and A-frame style. I let that idea go for the moment, as we just wanted it to be ready to move in sooner than later. Maybe in the future…

 

 

Bookcases are out!

 

The kitchen cabinets were only a couple of years old and so they would stay for now but it won’t take long for my husband to like what I have in mind!!  Plus we have a cabinet manufacturing company so why not!!

The bathrooms were outdated and needed some TLC. The doors and moldings needed to be modernized and we figured to make it a lovely home, those would just have to be thrown out and replaced with brand new. 

So here’s the crazy thing, for the first time since I can remember, I had something else to think about besides my work at The Cabinet Gallery. My work always took over my thoughts and it was so hard for me to escape it. My sister Karen would tease me by saying, “cabinets! cabinets! cabinets!” In otherwords, please talk about something other than work!!

Once we took possession of the property, working weekends at the office was a thing of the past. We had a great staff in the showroom, and for the first time, I felt like I could delegate and step away on the weekends (something my husband had been telling me to do for years, but I just couldn’t do it). We only had the weekends at the farm, and we had a lot to accomplish before we could move in.

We spent our first weekend at the farm putting a plan together, and by the next weekend, we had a dumpster delivered and got to work! Rhett, me, and our four boys were ripping out everything we could get our hands on. The boys were loving getting to use a sledgehammer and they were taking turns knocking down walls. When one was on the sledgehammer, the other three were working just as hard ripping up flooring and loading the dumpster.

To be honest, I’ve never seen my boys work so hard. They were laughing and having so much fun while working together! I stood back at one point, taking the camera away from my face, wiping the sweat off my forehead, and thought about how wonderful life has become.

Since the closet has been removed it will be the perfect spot for a full sized bunk bed. There will also be plenty of floor space to add a dresser and still have enough room for the boys to play.

It wasn’t just my boys. My 76-year-old mother was making sure she was getting in on the action. Within that first day, we had bookcases, bedroom carpets, doors, and moldings out of the house and in the dumpster, ready to be hauled away. It was quite a mission and I am still surprised at how much we got done.

The closet, doors, moldings, and carpet are out! Thanks to my 76-year-old mom for kicking butt!!

 

Here is the BEFORE picture of the master bedroom. There is a huge closet which is over two feet deep. Once the closet is removed I will have an ideal place to put a king-sized bed.  Since we won’t have any room for nightstands I am going to add pendant lights on each side of the bed.  As for the closet space, I’ve got plans which will be revealed soon.  Stay tuned, this room is going to look amazing and feel so much bigger!!

With Demo Day 1 behind us, we have still got a long way to go.  What I have learned is that demo is the easy part.  Check in on our next posts to see what comes next!